Rules to Travel By: My Hard-Earned Travel Tips

Written by Michaelann Kelley

Travel can be both exciting and stressful. I love the planning, the anticipation, and seeing all the famous sights — but I also know the hassle of hauling luggage, figuring out new showers, and navigating foreign transportation.

Over the years of traveling with friends, I’ve developed a few personal “Rules to Travel By” that help make every trip smoother:

My Top 5 Travel Rules

1. You bring it, you lug it.Pack light — if you can’t carry it, don’t bring it.

2. Always take a taxi (or ride share) from transportation hubs to your hotel.After a long flight, train ride, or cruise, it’s worth it — especially if you’re carrying luggage.

3. Never stay somewhere you can’t ask for another pillow.Trust me, a little extra comfort goes a long way.

4. If there’s a bathroom stop — take it.Don’t assume another one is around the corner.

5. Invest in good walking shoes (and bring a second pair).Your feet will thank you.

I’ve sometimes let other travelers talk me out of these, and I usually regret it. Stick to your own rules — they’re there for a reason.

Lessons from Scotland — More Tips I Swear By

1. A good raincoat is Better than an Umbrella

Scotland taught me that wind laughs at umbrellas. A hooded, waterproof raincoat keeps you dry, warm, and safe. Almost everyone I traveled with agreed — if you bring nothing else, bring a good raincoat.

2. Bring More Medications Than You Think

Don’t assume other countries will have your usual meds. Common brands like Tylenol or Advil may not be available. Pack extra of your daily meds in your carry-on — better safe than sorry.

3. Stay Connected with the Right Tech

Chargers, external batteries, power converters, and a good international phone plan are a must. I use AT&T’s daily international plan and loved having access to maps, email confirmations, and even nearby coffee shops.Bonus tip: If you live alone, maybe wait to post your travel pics on social media until you’re back home.

The Great Luggage Debate — To Check or Not to Check?

I usually check a bag if I’m staying in one place for a few days — I’m not too worried if it’s delayed. But if I’m on a cruise or a group trip with tight schedules, I’ll stick with carry-on only.

One packing trick I love: bring clothes you’re ready to toss. Wear them once, then throw them out. It frees up space for souvenirs, gifts, or even business papers. Plus, looking back at photos, I can often tell what day it was by what I was wearing!

Know Your Limits — And Trust Your Instincts

We all want to see and do everything, but it’s important to pace yourself. Drink water, rest your feet, and stay alert.

• Don’t leave your purse on the back of a chair.

• Don’t walk away from your suitcase.

• Be careful how much you share with strangers.

Pay attention to people around you. In Scotland, I spotted a man lingering by the ticket machines while my friends were buying tickets — and I kept a close eye on my belongings just in case. You’ll always look like a tourist, but you don’t have to be an easy target.

Travel is more fun with friends, but having the opportunity for some alone time can add much to your travels.

Be Your Own Advocate — And Take Breaks from Your Group

With experience comes confidence. If I’m not interested in an activity, I’ll politely bow out — and I hope my travel friends do the same.

I even have a code phrase: “I’m going to see the Tower of London.”No matter where we are, that means I’m taking a break for some solo time. It gives us all something fresh to talk about later over drinks.

Embrace the Stress — And Enjoy the Freedom

Travel isn’t always easy, but that’s part of the adventure. The challenges give you a chance to experience new cultures, learn history, and meet people you’d never encounter otherwise.

So don’t be afraid — pack your raincoat, follow your instincts, and enjoy the ride. Enjoy the new friends you may meet along the way. Embrace your differences, and celebrate your similarities.